I was a full time nanny, he was the owner of a construction company.
We both didn’t want to go up to the mountain that day, we both almost flaked out, we both were sort of seeing other people (casually) and we are ten years apart.
For Jordan, the latter was less of a big deal than it was to me.
It isn’t necessarily wrong that the two of you don’t share the same issues, but it takes recognition and understanding to provide the proper level of support.
You don’t have the right to belittle your partner’s problems and he/she should give you the same respect.